I am not usually the type of person to ask for help. I like to do things on my own and try to make it on my own. But after 4 years of struggle, I am desperate. My husband and I got married 2 1/2 years ago and we started our lives together with both of us in debt. On top of being in debt we had a little on on the way. I am a full time student and my husband works a dead in part time job that does not pay the bills. On top of the cost of living we have other past debts that we just can not pay. When I was pregnant I got in an accident and because of the accident I lost my license. With out a license it is hard for me to find a job worth anything. If I can not find a decent paying job then there is no point in me working, because of the fact my paychecks would go to a babysitter and food. It would not help us get out of our situation we are in. I am so depressed right now because my husband is finally getting to do what he wants with his life and he is leaving to join the army to help better our situation. But that leaves me here with a baby and no license to get anywhere. I just feel like I am trapped and I can not get out of the situation I am in. I just want to know what to do. I need help and I dont know how to get it.